“Taking Care of Your Woman Doesn’t Make You a Simp” – Uzor Arukwe Defends Movie Role

Nigerian actor Uzor Arukwe has responded to criticism regarding his role in the YouTube film Love in Every Word, which has sparked widespread debate about financial responsibility in relationships.

The movie, which has gained significant popularity, especially among female audiences, explores themes of love, responsibility, and financial commitment. However, some male viewers have criticized the film’s portrayal of men who invest heavily in their relationships, claiming it is unrealistic.

One X (formerly Twitter) user directly challenged Arukwe, arguing that his character, an affectionate and financially generous lover, portrays Anambra men as “simps” (a term used to describe men who excessively cater to their romantic partners).

“Anambra men are not simps. Your movie is only liked by ladies, who have always had the illusion of an Odogwu that’ll spend his last dime on them,” the user wrote.

In a direct rebuttal, Arukwe defended his character and the movie’s message, stating:

“Taking care of your woman and spending money on her doesn’t make you a simp. It only makes you a responsible man. How else do you show love to your partner if you can’t take care of their needs from the abundance of your wealth?”

His response has since reignited social media debates about financial roles in relationships, with some people applauding his stance while others argue that financial provision should not define love or masculinity.

This latest conversation reflects a broader societal debate on the expectations of men in relationships, particularly in a time when gender roles are continuously evolving.